My boss is coming to KL to have meeting with us and this will also include a one to one session with all our team members.

Previously, after I resigned, all of my colleagues asked me to tell my boss how bad M treated me and told me that if they were me, they sure will tell this and that…

So now, my boss is coming and I told them that this is the chance for them to talk to him. One of my colleagues who always suggested me to say this and that told me that she will not say anything. As long as M treat her good then she will be OK. WTF ? Then what for they asked me to say this and that and they do not want to speak out themselves ? Because I resigned and they used me as a tool to help them to speak out their anger so that management can do something ?

I am really stupid to believe on what they told me… sigh…

Anyway, I learnt this lesson. Next time, I won’t be so easy to be affected by colleagues. I must decide my stuffs myself !

I complained to my colleague “Why she doesn’t know how to fill in the portal request? Why I am so easy to get angry when doing her request? I really hate to do her request.”

My colleague told me “Nobody likes to do her request actually. Take it easy. You get angry easily always and you must control you emotion when working.”

I realized that I get angry easily when deal with those people that I dislike in the office. I know that I must control my temper and be more professional. But unfortunately, saying is easy than do. sigh…

I know that I should change that bad characters while working especially I will go to a new environment and new job soon.

People always mentioned “Give and Take.”.
We must practice this attitude to give to others in order to take from others. We definitely will pass though some difficulties in order to make something successfully done. Sacrifice is a must in order to get the fruitful results that you need.

Today is 1st January 2008 and it is the first day of this new year. Normally, early of the year, everyone will draft for themselves a year plan. Have you done yours ?

Here are my list for my career wise:

1. Change a new job is a big project for me this year. Hope to get it soon.

2. Hope to get a job with same salary or 10 to 15% decrease. 

3. Hope to improve my communication skills among bosses and colleagues.

4. Hope to improve my leadership skills.

5. Hope to have a happy working life with less politics.

Happy New Year to you~